HOW TO LAND
APPOINTMENTS
with more
MAJOR GIFT &
LEGACY GIFT
DONOR PROSPECTS

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Greg Warner
CEO & Founder


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Author of 
Engagement 
Fundraising 


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Who is
this guy?

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Who is
this guy?

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gap

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Who is
this guy?

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Ticked-off donor Changed my business Wrote a book

30,000

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Major &
legacy gift
FUNDRAISING CHALLENGES


mega gifts

EMPATHY
Lack of time
Not enough staff
Tight budgets
Travel is time-consuming and expensive
Qualifying prospects is very difficult
Getting an appointment is nearly impossible

It’s harder to get an appointment than to secure a gift.” 
Getting an appointment is 85% of getting the gift.”


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Major &
legacy gift
FUNDRAISING CHALLENGES

EMPATHY
According to fundraisers:
52% Supporter doesn’t respond to outreach
18% Supporter says: “I’ll give, don’t need a visit”
16% I’m not sure what to say when I reach out
14% Supporter keeps delaying the visit

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Major &
legacy gift
FUNDRAISING CHALLENGES

EMPATHY
Leadership may pressure you to get results quickly
Lack of understanding of:
   ✔The donor’s consideration process
   ✔The fact that donors love the mission, but are afraid of fundraisers

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YOUR MAJOR OR LEGACY GIFT DONOR PROSPECT’S 
CONSIDERATION PROCESS

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YOUR MAJOR OR LEGACY GIFT DONOR PROSPECT’S 
CONSIDERATION PROCESS

management

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YOUR MAJOR OR LEGACY GIFT DONOR PROSPECT’S 
CONSIDERATION PROCESS

decision making

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YOUR MAJOR OR LEGACY GIFT DONOR PROSPECT’S 
CONSIDERATION PROCESS

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YOUR MAJOR OR LEGACY GIFT DONOR PROSPECT’S 
CONSIDERATION PROCESS

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YOUR MAJOR OR LEGACY GIFT DONOR PROSPECT’S 
CONSIDERATION PROCESS

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YOUR MAJOR OR LEGACY GIFT DONOR PROSPECT’S 
CONSIDERATION PROCESS


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TACTICS


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TACTICS

1

ADJUST YOUR MINDSET

YOU ARE NOT:

✔ A BEGGAR
✔ A MANIPULATOR
✔ AN ARM TWISTER


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TACTICS

1

ADJUST YOUR MINDSET

YOU ARE A

✔ LOVING
✔ CARING
✔ HELPFUL
✔ GENEROUS
✔ JOYFUL…

A VALUE 
CREATOR & 
FACILITATOR


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TACTICS

1

ADJUST YOUR MINDSET

HELP SUPPORT THEIR 
DECISION-MAKING PROCESS

experience

+

✔ BUILD TRUST
✔ PROVIDE VALUE
✔ DEVELOP RELATIONSHIPS
✔ UNCOVER NEEDS
✔ MATCH NEEDS TO PROGRAMS


A VALUE 
CREATOR & 
FACILITATOR

=

LAND MORE 
APPPOINTMENTS =
& CLOSE MORE GIFTS


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TACTICS

2

RECOGNIZE THE
EXISTENCE OF THE
VALLEY OF DISTRUST

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TACTICS

2
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TACTICS

2

BUY INTO AN
ENGAGEMENT CALLING
PROCESS

distrust

MANDATORY:

AT LEAST TWO CONVERSATIONS
BEFORE ASKING FOR A MEETING

DON’T ASK, OFFER TO PROVIDE VALUE


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TACTICS

2

HOW TO PROVIDE
VALUE

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How to land appointments with more major and legacy donor prospects

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TACTICS

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TACTICS

AGE: 74

✔ NO CHILDREN

✔ TOP CHOICE FOR GIVING

✔ MISSION IS OF UTMOST IMPORTANCE

✔ LIKELY TO GIVE ASSETS

✔ MIGHT CONSIDER A LEGACY GIFT


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RECENCY IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS

recency

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TACTICS

3

HOW TO PROVIDE
VALUE

THINK

WHAT CAN I
OFFER OR DO

TO MAKE THEM
FEEL GOOD?


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TACTICS

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TACTICS

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TACTICS

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TACTICS

PRACTICE YOUR
DIALOGUE

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paper

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TACTICS

PRACTICE YOUR
DIALOGUE

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meeting

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TACTICS

PRACTICE YOUR
DIALOGUE

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TACTICS

PRACTICE YOUR
DIALOGUE

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TACTICS

=
YOU’RE READY!

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TACTICS

5

GIVE THEM
POWER

power

PUSHINESS BACKFIRES

“YOU CAN END THE CALL ANY TIME”

“IT’S COMPLETELY UP TO YOU”

“I REALLY DON’T WANT YOU TO FEEL PRESSURED”

“LET’S PENCIL-THIS-INTO YOUR CALENDAR”


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TACTICS

5

GIVE THEM
POWER

power

ASK TONS OF QUESTIONS
AND LISTEN TO THE ANSWERS
SHOW THAT YOU CARE


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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!

MAKE THEM
FEEL GOOD

PRESENT THE VALUE
THEY’LL GAIN FROM
MEETING WITH YOU

ASK FOR THE
MEETING AND
SHUT UP!
COUNT TO 10

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


EXAMPLES

 

1. COLD ASK (FIRST CALL)
2. WARM ASK (AFTER ENGAGEMENT CALLS)

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“[NAME], YOUR STORY IS FASCINATING. IT
WOULD BE GREAT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT YOU
AND YOUR INTERESTS SO I CAN WORK ON YOUR
BEHALF TO HELP YOU GET MORE OUT OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP WITH OUR SHARED MISSION.
WHY DON’T WE GET TOGETHER NEXT WEEK,
PERHAPS ON TUESDAY? WHAT DO YOU SAY?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“[NAME], YOUR SUPPORT HAS BEEN SO WONDERFUL.
IT REALLY MEANS A LOT. NOT EVERYONE ‘GETS IT’ LIKE
YOU DO. THAT’S WHY I WONDER IF YOU WOULD CONSIDER
GIVING US SOME FEEDBACK AND ADVICE ON XY&Z. IT
WOULD BE INVALUABLE. CAN WE GET TOGETHER EITHER
NEXT TUESDAY OR THURSDAY?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


[“[NAME], DURING OUR LAST CONVERSATION YOU
MENTIONED XY&Z. IT WOULD BE GREAT TO LEARN MORE
ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS ON THAT. HOW ABOUT WE GET
TOGETHER ON WEDNESDAY OR THURSDAY, OK?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“COULD WE GET TOGETHER ON TUESDAY AT 3
PM OR WOULD ANOTHER TIME WORK BETTER
FOR YOU?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“COULD WE PENCIL IN A TIME TO MEET SO I CAN
LEARN HOW BEST TO SERVE YOUR NEEDS?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“IF I COULD HELP YOU FIND MORE MEANING IN
YOUR LIFE THROUGH YOUR INVOLVEMENT WITH
OUR SHARED CAUSE, WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS
ON GETTING TOGETHER IN PERSON?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“IT WOULD BE GREAT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT YOU.
IF WE WERE TO MEET I MIGHT BE ABLE TO HELP YOU
GET EVEN MORE JOY OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH OUR SHARED CAUSE. WHAT WOULD YOUR
THOUGHTS BE ABOUT GETTING TOGETHER TO HAVE
AN INITIAL MEETING? ”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“[NAME], WHAT’S THE BEST WAY TO GET ON
YOUR CALENDAR?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“WHY DON’T WE GET TOGETHER SO YOU CAN
LEARN MORE? WHAT DOES YOUR SCHEDULE LOOK
LIKE NEXT WEEK?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“[NAME], DID YOU KNOW THAT I CAN MEET WITH
YOU TO HELP YOU? WOULD YOU MIND OPENING UP
YOUR CALENDAR SO WE CAN SET IT UP?”

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TACTICS

5

BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!


“[NAME], I’M GOING TO BE IN YOUR AREA NEXT WEEK.
I’D HATE TO MISS AN OPPORTUNITY TO MEET YOU. AND
IF WE WERE TO GET TOGETHER I COULD BRING YOU
AB&C. CAN WE SCHEDULE A BRIEF VISIT IN-PERSON?”

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TACTICS

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BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!

MAKE THEM
FEEL GOOD

PRESENT THE VALUE
THEY’LL GAIN FROM
MEETING WITH YOU

ASK FOR THE
MEETING AND
SHUT UP!
COUNT TO 10

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TACTICS

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BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!

DO NOT SAY:
“I’D LIKE TO UPDATE YOU
ON WHAT WE’RE DOING.”

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TACTICS

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BE CLEAR, THEN
SHUT UP!

CONSIDER THE ALTERNATE CLOSE

“ARE MORNINGS BETTER FOR YOU OR DO YOU PREFER AFTERNOONS?”

“IS TUESDAY GOOD OR HOW ABOUT THURSDAY?”


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TACTICS

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LEAVE
VOICEMAIL

mail

RADIO AD MESSAGES

✔ OFFER TO PROVIDE VALUE

FLATTER ‘EM

SHOW ‘EM THAT YOU KNOW ‘EM

BE RELEVANT

BE EMOTIONAL

BE ENTHUSIASTIC


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TACTICS

number-8

CONSIDER
LINKEDIN

prospect online

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TACTICS

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COUNT YOUR FAILURES AS
SUCCESSES

count

DISQUALIFY

NO = NOT NOW


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TACTICS

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LEVERAGE
REFERRALS

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REVIEW

appointment

THANK YOU

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Greg Warner linkedin-1
CEO & Founder
info@imarketsmart.com


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EXTRAS

phone calls

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supporters

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checklist

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no

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enough

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calls

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why

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EXTRAS

about you

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